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A child who cannot read is not less — they are simply waiting for someone to open the right door.Words of Waking — Tshego Khatri
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The internet is drowning in AI-generated content. Optimised for algorithms. Written for no one. We built this platform for a different kind of reader — one who is tired of celebrity noise, clickbait headlines, and words far removed from the realities of their own life.
Every piece on The Selves of Us is written by a human being who lived through something. Tshego Khatri sat in a rehabilitation centre in Southernwood and listened to Yolisa talk about learning to trust again after losing her sight. Roy Hewett spent 17¾ years in a principal's office watching South Africa from the inside. These are not content pieces. They are acts of witness.
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“Write about language: a word in your mother tongue that doesn't translate, or a moment when language failed you completely.”
— Tshego Khatri
Write Your MirrorRecent Reflections
“Sad stories but realities of life. Got a bit emotional- Tsuna.”
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““For me, mental disability is especially agonising because it doesn’t always wear a face that reveals exactly why some children are the way they are and that they are different at face value. So, it tends to be invisible”
These are the exact sentences I've been waiting for all my life. Tsuna
“Hi Tshego! Mma I can see you are really into it. Good job. Will make time to read both.”
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“Sad stories but realities of life. Got a bit emotional- Tsuna.”
““For me, mental disability is especially agonising because it doesn’t always wear a face that reveals exactly why some children are the way they are and that they are different at face value. So, it tends to be invisible”
These are the exact sentences I've been waiting for all my life. Tsuna·in response toWrapping the Gift of Compassion
“Hi Tshego! Mma I can see you are really into it. Good job. Will make time to read both.”
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What has Tshego written about community in East London?
There are two pieces that go deep into East London community life — Beyond Sight visits REHAB in Southernwood where Yolisa, Shama and Mr Madliki are rebuilding their worlds, and Missing Sounds & Silent Worlds follows the Carel du Toit Centre. Both will change how you see your neighbours.